Life is hard. Twitter understands. The latest self-care meme to sweep the social media site is all about prioritizing yourself and doing what you need to do to get by. “Cancelling plans is OK,” it usually starts out. That’s decent advice! But then things usually take a turn — and readers will be surprised…

via No One Understands the Hectic Things You Do With Your Life Like the ‘Whatever You Need to Do to Cope’ Meme — TIME